Findom: The power play of financial domination

Findom (financial domination) is a unique kink where a submissive, often called a “paypig,” gives money or gifts to a dominant (“findomme”) as part of a consensual power exchange.

Unlike other BDSM dynamics, findom is all about the psychological thrill of financial control—without physical interaction.

The dominant enjoys the power, while the submissive gets pleasure from giving up financial control.

Why Do People Love Findom?

• Power Exchange: The submissive enjoys being financially controlled, and the dominant enjoys the sense of power.
• Psychological Thrill: It’s all about the mind game—no physical touch required.
• Empowerment for Dominants: Being financially worshipped is a big ego boost for findommes.

Want to Try It Safely?

Set boundaries, communicate clearly, and never give more than you can afford.

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